When the Child Becomes the Caregiver
Paula Spahn wrote yesterday about a new show, “Ruth and Erica,” that is aired exclusively on the Wig Channel on YouTube, centered on a grown woman who is beginning to face the reality that her aging parents may not be so self-sufficient anymore (her father fell asleep at a stop sign – “Once!” her mother protests – while behind the wheel of his car). To make matters more complicated, her parents are in total denial of their fading capabilities and her mother, in particular, seems determined to deflect any implication that she and her husband are starting to show signs of decline: when presented with rotting food in her fridge, she tells her daughter, “I’m going to make something with that!” to which her daughter replies, “What are they? Seriously identify the fruit and I’ll put them back.”